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Was !!!


They tell you that true love will smack you in the face when you least expect it, but only when you are ready. That’s exactly what happened, and the moment we met, I felt a flood of relief. That ‘thing’ that had been missing my whole life was here, and folks, some of you may scoff, but it really WAS love at first sight. We met on Facebook, and met in person at a park, and the story is true. She literally ran and jumped into my arms when we met. I knew. And I instantly wished this feeling will last forever.

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Lucky


If you’ve never had a cigarette, you won’t understand. If you’ve had the occasional casual drag or two at a party, this isn’t for you. If you’ve bought a pack, only to smoke one or two a day until you run out, then you have no idea. If you can go weeks at a time without thinking, feeling, or hungering for the sweet inhale of smoke into your lungs, then you don’t get it. If you’re any of the above, you’re lucky. You’re not an addict.

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Book Review: ‘One Indian Girl’ by Chetan Bhagat

This Sunday mornings of mine started with this late arrived novel from Amazon. From tht very moment I started & finished it just now. Though it didn’t impressed me much but here comes my review.. 


One Indian Girl begins with a Punjabi family. Check. Obviously, there is a wedding. Check. You can’t possibly forget a dramatic mother coupled with a relatively sober father and a troupe of aunties. Check. Chetan Bhagat could probably come up with a code for what entertains the Indian masses, for Punjabis plus a wedding seems to be his favourite algorithm. And One Indian Girl is not too different.

In a first, a Chetan Bhagat novel has a female narrator but despite its bold variations, it largely sticks to the script. That doesn’t mean it has to be admonished because, after all, there is comfort in pattern and traditions.

One Indian Girl’s only motif, apart from putting up a spectacle loved by readers, is an inquiry into the mind of an Indian woman — not a girl, but a woman. It delves into the wonderfully weird narrator, Radhika, whose internal monologue is as comical as it is relatable. Through conversations with herself, she tells the story of being born in a family that always wanted a boy but settled for an overachieving, nerdy career woman who can’t find a groom for herself because she isn’t a “girl anymore”.

Through the narrator, One Indian Girl explains why patriarchy thrives in India; not just because it is imposed by the men, but because these societal rules and restrictions are internalised by women. It is when Radhika seeks validation from her insecure boyfriend, who earns less than her, that the ugly scars of gender discrimination are visible. The realisation strikes again when the Goldman Sachs vice-president is told by her lover/married boss he did not see her as a “maternal” figure. Eventually, her past asks her to make a choice a lot of women would be familiar with: Pursuing a glittering career or living a fulfilling, homely life. Neither of her lovers recognize that a woman could want, and have, both.

But there are bigger chinks in the protagonist that stream in darker shadows of the society. In the opening chapters, the narrator thinks to herself, “This is how we girls are. At times, we want to be wanted even when we deny it.” Although the statement merely refers to the popular belief that women seek attention, it is a far cry from the lesson taught by Amitabh Bachchan’s resounding “She said No” in the movie Pink. It serves to tell us that stereotypes are dangerous, that all women may not enjoy shopping and not everyone wants a man to fawn over as she spurns him. To categorise a woman as attention-seeking is a lot like claiming all men are sexual predators. It is as nearly as ridiculous as Chetan Bhagat attempting to understand women’s psyche by getting himself waxed…


Like the indication that the society needs to change, Radhika too evolves from an under-confident geek to a decisive character living on her own terms. Her metamorphosis throws in another emerging pattern. Like Kangana Ranaut-starrer Queen, the woman has to move out of the confines of her country and out of the watchful gaze of the Indian society to discover herself. On the contrary, Radhika’s mother and sister — who remain in India — are deeply rooted to tradition, often justifying the system’s claustrophobic walls and following its rules mechanically.

There are, however, glaring misses in the story. While Radhika’s love life soars and topples, her professional growth only sees a straight upward trend without any blips. By zooming in on just one element of the character’s life, the author inadvertently simplifies her and relegates her issues to merely her personal life.

Alas! All good things must come to an end. After an intelligent first half, One Indian Girl turns into a standard Chetan Bhagat bestseller (or a future box office hit?). The plot comes to a full circle as the scene once again turns to the Goan wedding and melodrama ensues as the oblivious family dances to ‘chittiya kaliya’.

The larger question is: Is it worth spending time over? The novel can be best described as a slight anomaly from the ordinary. By the end, it’s like an advertisement theme song you don’t care about, but one that you can’t stop humming. But Bhagat’s status as a bestselling author may compel his huge readership base to spark a dialogue on feminism and equal rights. Even though it falls short of making real impact, it may just be a beginning..

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My Fav Song

On a lonely road.. Crossed another cold state line.

Miles away from those I love, Purpose hard to find.

While I recall all those words you spoke to me..

Can’t help but wish that I was there; Back where I’d love to be

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Her Eyes

 


      Starry night, Starry night..

The stars shining in the sky,

The star twinkling in her eye.

Like the sun in day so high,

Or the moon in evening sky.

Like a nebulae are big & bright,

Like a supernova explosion in broad daylight.

Starry night, Starry night..

   Oh, what a beautiful sight

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Common Man’s Love <3

      I am nothing special; just a common man with common thoughts. And I’ve always led a very common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me & my name will be soon forgotten. But in one respect I have succeeded as the greatest person ever lived.

      I’ve loved her with all my heart & soul. She gave me everything in return. Our love is pure & true.

      And to me this is the greatest thing one can achieve.